Inland Empire Family Lawyer

What is a legal separation?

2009-10-26T09:12:00.000-07:00

By: Attorney Jeffrey R. Sissung

I sometimes hear a potential client say, "I don’t really want a divorce. Maybe just a legal separation." The potential client’s understanding seems to be that a legal separation creates only a temporary condition pending a potential reconciliation; that a legal separation is somehow a "divorce lite." That understanding is not accurate.

A legal separation and a marital dissolution are similar in that both proceedings are actions to conclusively determine and settle the spouses’ property rights and financial responsibilities to one another and to their minor children. Both proceedings result in a final judgment on the issues of child and spousal support; child custody and visitation; and community property rights and obligations. In that sense they mirror each other. The critical difference between a marital dissolution and a legal separation, however, is that a judgment of legal separation does not terminate marital status. That is, in a legal separation, the parties remain married at the conclusion of the proceeding and are not free to marry another person. Each party remains free to obtain a subsequent "status" judgment to dissolve the marriage should either choose to do so, however, the issues decided during the legal separation process cannot be re-litigated.

Why choose a legal separation? People generally choose a legal separation over a marital dissolution for religious beliefs, tax purposes, or other personal reasons. In today’s difficult economy, spouses might seek a legal separation instead of a dissolution in order to retain eligibility for medical insurance that would otherwise be lost by termination of the marriage. This is obviously an important consideration where a party has a preexisting medical condition (for which new coverage would not be obtainable) or insufficient resources to procure replacement coverage.

People also frequently confuse the terms "legal separation" and "date of separation." Both have a distinct legal meaning. The date of separation, a critical date in both a legal separation action and a marital dissolution action, is the date on which the community estate is to be divided. A legal separation is a means of adjudicating marital rights and obligations, as set forth above.

Hope that helps clear up some confusion regarding the legal separation!

What is the "Six Month Rule" in California Divorce?

2009-10-09T13:34:00.000-07:00

This is one of the most commonly misunderstood areas of divorce law in California. Some people believe it means you cannot file for divorce unless you have been separated for six months first. It does not. Others believe it means that your divorce WILL become final six months after it is filed. It does not mean this either.

The Six month rule is located at Family Code Section 2337 (www.leginfo.ca.gov).

What it actually means to parties is the soonest your divorce MAY become final is six months and one day after the Respondent (the party not initiating the divorce by filing) is served with the Petition (the paper used to start the divorce process). However, there are many other procedural hurdles that have to be overcome before your divorce can be granted in this time frame. Also, the six month rule only deals with the termination of the marital status, that is returning the parties to the status of single people. The six month rule has nothing to do with the conclusion or resolution of other issues such as child custody, child support, spousal support (alimony), or property division (www.coronalaw.com).

As a practical matter, most contested cases cannot possibly be finished in six months in their entirety, therefore, it is possible to file a Motion to Bifurcate the Marital Status from the other issues, allowing a party to become single before the final resolution of the remaining issues. This may allow a party to remarry, or simply cut the emotional ties to the failed relationship. This subject, however, has a series of conditions and concerns related to it which are the basis of another discussion.

For more information, contact us at pcdesk@coronalaw.com or at (951) 734-6371.

What do you do if you are not getting your support payments?

2009-06-16T16:02:00.000-07:00

First thing you should do if your ex-spouse is not paying their support payments is contact an attorney right away. Also if they are not paying their child support payments you might want to contact the California Department of Child Support Services.

The following is a list of some of the remedies that might be taken.

Wage Garnishment
Many child support orders have a clause that allows you to garnish the wages of the paying parent once payments become overdue. If your child support order doesn't have this language, you can ask the court to add it to your order.

Either your attorney or a local child support enforcement agency can prepare and serve the paperwork for a garnishment on the nonpaying parent's employer.

Once the garnishment takes effect, the current child support and some portion of the overdue child support is taken directly out of the nonpaying parent's paycheck each pay period.

Attaching Tax Refunds
If the nonpaying parent is at least three months behind in child support payments, the Federal Tax Offset Program allows you to "attach" (take) the nonpaying parent's federal income tax refund.

You can find out more information by contacting your local or state child support enforcement agencies.

Contempt Motions
Another option might be to file a contempt motion against the parent who hasn't paid support, asking the court where the child support order originated to hold him or her in contempt for violating the child support order.

Hiring your own attorney is the fastest and most efficient way of processing a contempt motion.
In some states, local child support agencies will provide you with an attorney if you can't afford one on your own.

Your attorney will need the following information to file the contempt motion:

A copy of the child support order
The nonpaying parent's name, current address and social security number
The nonpaying parent's driver's license number, if available
The current employer of the nonpaying parent, if available
A list of any real estate the nonpaying parent may own
Identification of any professional licenses the nonpaying parent may hold
A description of any previous efforts you've made to collect the past-due support

How do you get a move away order for out of state?

2009-06-13T12:10:00.000-07:00

In order to obtain a move away order to relocate with the child out of state, the requesting party must submit a request to the court in order to do so. The court will consider the following:

Have circumstances changed since the original order for custody and visitation was issued?
Is the purpose of the move to prevent the non-custodial parent from having contact with the child?
Is a move out of state going to be detrimental or beneficial to the child?
If the parents have joint or shared physical custody, how much time has the child been spending with each?

The court does not answer these questions at just one hearing. In almost all cases, if the parties are not in agreement with the move, the court will order that a "730" evaluation take place.

This evaluation consists of thorough interviews conducted by a court-appointed professional, primarily, a psychologist. The psychologist will render a report at which time, he/she will make a recommendation stating that the move is either not in the child's best interest or that it is. The court will consider the recommendation and make a determination of the move as well. This process is not easily handled. It takes time and is costly.

Is there a bias towards women in family law courts?

2009-06-09T11:58:00.000-07:00

Believe it or not I hear this question so many times. In fact many men feel that they have no chance at getting custody of their children. The truth of the matter is; No, there is not a bias towards women in family law courts.

The primary goal for all Family Law Courts is to always have the child/rens' best interest at mind, whether it be with mother or father. The court must and always assess the family situation and involves family mediators to give an unbiased recommendation as to determine where the child/ren will be best cared for.

This can be a tricky situation and it is recommended that if there is a custody dispute that you retain the services of a local child custody lawyer.

What is meant by Joint Custody and sole Custody?

2009-06-05T13:56:00.000-07:00

Joint physical custody is when both parents have the child/ren an equal amount of time, if not, that the child/ren have two primary residences with both mother and father. With joint physical custody, both parents share in all responsibilities.

Sole physical custody is when the child only has one primary residence with either mother or father. The time share is not equal and the other parent is awarded visitation.

What is Legal custody?

2009-06-04T15:53:00.000-07:00

Legal custody is when both parents share in all decision making for the child/ren. Both parents have a say-so as to the following:
-enrollment/dis enrollment private/public school and/or daycare
-participation in religious activities
-beginning/ending psychiatric, psychological, or other mental health counseling or therapy
-selection of a doctor, dentist or other health professional (except in emergency situations)
-participation in extracurricular activities
-out-of-state or out-of-country travel

Each parent must have access to the child/rens school, medical, and dental records and the right to consult with professionals who are providing service to the child/ren.

Each parent will be designated as a person the child/ren's school will contact in the event of an emergency.

Neither parent will change the last name of the child/ren or have a different name used on the child/ren's school,medical or other records without the written consent of the other parent.

For more information about all of your custody issues please visit my Family Law Website

Why should you retain a local family law attorney?

2009-05-31T18:05:00.000-07:00

If you live in Riverside California it really can be beneficial to retain a lawyer that practices in the Riverside courts. While there are many benefits to retaining a local attorney I am only going to list a few.

You would want to have an attorney that is familiar with the local court procedures, judges and rules.
Because the attorney is local they would be known and respected by there peers.
They are familiar with the tactics of other attorneys that you might be up against.

If you are looking for a local Riverside family law attorney please visit my family law website and feel free to contact my office for a free consultation.

The local family law courts in Orange County

2009-05-25T18:31:00.000-07:00

Central Justice Center 700 Civic Center Drive West Santa Ana, CA 92702
Lamoreaux Justice Center 341 The City Drive Orange, CA 92683

Again, where you reside determines where you may file.

The local family law courts in the Inland Empire

2009-05-25T18:26:00.000-07:00

Barstow District 235 E. Mountain View Avenue Barstow, CA 92311
Hemet District 880 North State Street Hemet, CA 92543
Rancho Cucamonga District 8303 N. Haven Avenue Rancho Cucamona, CA 91730
Riverside Family Law Court 4175 Main Street Riverside, CA 92501
San Bernardino District 351 N. Arrowhead Avenue San Bernardino, CA 92415
Victorville District 14455 Civic Drive Victorville, CA 92392

Where you reside is a factor in where you file. The courts listed above are the main family law courts. For example, if you reside in Corona you would file in Riverside, if you live in Hesperia you would file in Victorville.

If you have any questions please feel free to call our family law office and speak to one of our attorneys right away. 866-930-1949

How do I file for divorce if I do not have a lot of money for an attorney?

2009-05-23T18:20:00.000-07:00

The local Family Courts offer workshops on document preparation so you can "do it yourself."

You can also pick up a Dissolution packet, which has step-by-step instructions on how to complete the forms.

There are also legal aid clinics in your community to prepare your documents. Most legal aid clinics do charge for the preparation of documents, however, the charge is significantly less than hiring an attorney.

The workshops and the clinics only offer assistance in document preparation, they cannot offer legal advice.

Because of the economic times we are in our Family Law Offices is doing what we can to be able to offer some of our services for a discounted rate as well as for a fixed amount.

Please call my office to get more information or visit my Family Law Website.

Can Child Support be modified & under what circumstances?

2009-05-19T18:15:00.000-07:00

Child support orders are modifiable at any time the court deems necessary so long as there has been a material change in circumstance.

Two of the main factors in determining if there is a change in circumstance are:

Change in visitation: child support can be modified based upon the time share the non-custodial parent has with the minor child(ren). The higher the timeshare, the amount of support may decrease, less the timeshare, the amount of support may increase.
Ability to pay: Perhaps the non-custodial parent no longer earns the same amount as when the order was issued and is not able to pay the amount ordered. A request may be made to decrease the amount of the initial child support ordered based upon the decrease in pay. However, if the non-custodial parent earns more than before, the custodial parent may request the court to increase the amount of support based upon the higher pay of the non-custodial parent as they would have the ability to pay more support.

In order for the court to revisit the issue of support, the party requesting the modification must prepare and file an Order to Show Cause to modify support, at which time the court will set the matter for hearing. The moving party must submit their updated income and expense information along with evidence of their income (i.e pay stubs, 1099's or Federal Tax returns).

What is meant by a no-fault divorce?

2009-05-16T18:17:00.000-07:00

"No-fault" divorce describes a divorce where no one is at fault for the dissolution of the marriage. Many times a party may think that the Judge must be aware that their partner has cheated, hence, the request for the divorce. This is not the case for a no-fault divorce. A party may file for divorce under the grounds of "incapacity" or "irreconcilable differences."

California is a no-fault divorce state and therefor all of the family law courts in the Inland Empire; Rancho Cucamonga, Riverside, San Bernardino and Hemet are as well.

What is Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS)?

2008-10-27T18:42:00.000-07:00

This is a very common question for parents involved in a highly disputed custody battle. Many times I here from one side that they believe that their spouse has turned their child against them.

If you suspect that the first thing you really need to do is contact a family law attorney so that you can get immediate relief. Leaving that aside here are a few questions you need to ask yourself:

Does one or more of your children want to spend less time with you?
Do they now reject you when they used to be very warm and loving?
Do they sometimes claim that you hate them or that they hate you?

If these issues are now prevalent in your relationship with your child he / she may be suffering from Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS).

In 1985 a doctor named Richard A. Gardner, M.D. introduced the term parental alienation syndrome and pioneered its study. The following three cases are examples of the California family law courts recognizing PAS.

Coursey v. Superior Court (Coursey), 194 Cal.App.3d 147,239 Cal.Rptr. 365 (Cal.App. 3 Dist., Aug 18, 1987.
John W. v. Phillip W., 41 Cal.App.4th 961, 48 Cal.Rptr.2d 899; 1996.
Valerie Edlund v. Gregory Hales, 66 Cal. App 4th 1454; 78 Cal. Rptr. 2d 671.

If the court finds that PAS exists, it is likely to order a drastic shift of child custody or visitation.

The following are actual quotes by custodial parents said to children about the non custodial parent.

"Your dad is a jerk, and his new wife is weird"
"I know you don't want to go there but you have to" (the key to this sentence is the first part...i know you don't want...the CP is implying that the child's wish to not see the NCP is at the fault of the NCP and the NCP is just being mean in demanding his visitation time)
"You dad does not want to pay the support because he is a cheap selfish bastard and only I care about you"
"Your dad does not care about you. He only gives me a little money, not what you deserve to be raised on"
"I can't afford to buy nice stuff for you because your father won't give me more money"
"I can barely feed you on the child support money"
"Go ahead and live with your dad. You can just abandon us like he did"
"You dad only wants you to live with him because he wants to pay less money"
"Your dad is a bad father"
"Your grandma even thinks your dad is a bad father"
"You know only I love you"
"I am going to miss you so much while you are gone with your father"
"I am so lonely here without you"

If you feel that this is going on with your child please contact our office right away. And if not our office, please find an attorney that specializes in family law and contact them.

California Spousal Support Questions

2008-10-10T08:43:00.000-07:00

As a family law attorney one of the main questions that I get is how much money will have to pay for spousal support? The simple answer is that California has a formula that is used to determine that. The long answer is there are a lot of factors that contribute to that. I will attempt to give you some basic information here on my blog as well you can visit my firms website. With that in mind the best way is for you to call my office for a FREE consultation and we can discuss.

Most people who earn more than their spouses are aware that in the event of a divorce they most likely will owe some level of spousal support, formerly called alimony, to the lower income earning spouse. They may not know the amount or the duration but they are aware of the risk. As an example, I recently had a consultation with a client and I went over the details of how spousal support is calculated. We ran the support numbers for him and we discussed the factors that go into calculating spousal support. Based on his information I was prepared to give him a number until he brought up the fact that his wife had been convicted of domestic violence against him.

This is a classic example that a man who is a high earner, as in this case, is somewhat resigned to the idea of paying spousal support and does not necessarily considered his wife’s domestic violence as an important issue to bring up immediately. Women who are the victims of domestic violence will be much more likely to bring it up immediately, most likely because they want a restraining order. Men may feel like they can protect themselves so they do not feel they need a restraining order. With that being the case, domestic violence is a key factor in determining spousal support. If a spouse has been convicted of domestic violence against the other spouse within the last five years then under California law there is a presumption that the injured spouse should not have to pay spousal support to their abuser. Therefore my consultation would have a good case to make to the court that even though he would normally owe spousal support that he should not have to under these circumstances because of his wife’s criminal conviction of domestic violence against him.

This is just one example of something that effects spousal support. This is why I encourage you that if you have any questions about spousal support or domestic violence or any other family law issue then please contact my family law office toll free at 866- 930-1949 or visit our family law website to schedule a free consultation at the office location nearest you. We have offices in throughout the Inland Empire as well as Orange County California.

My Law Firm

2008-09-25T16:36:00.000-07:00

At the Family law offices of Holstrom, Sissung, Marks & Anderson APLC, we devote our practice to Family Law. From our offices in Corona, we aggressively represent clients throughout Riverside, Corona and the entire Inland Empire. From our Orange County Family Law Office we represent clients throughout the Orange County area.

We bring extensive experience and an impressive depth of knowledge to our law practice. Our family law firm is committed to fairness and candor, and to a high level of personal service for each of our clients. We take the time needed to understand you, your personal goals, and your legal issues. We then provide you with real options and recommendations as to the best course of action.

As your Family Law, Divorce, Child Custody, Child Support, Spousal Support, Paternity, Domestic Violence, Modifications, Visitation and Property Distribution lawyers we take a pragmatic approach to Family Law issues, and never lose sight of the big picture - continuously striving to protect the interests of children and clients involved. We work towards out-of-court settlements whenever possible, and beneficial, because they generally reduce emotional distress for families in crisis, as well as the financial burden. However, when it is in your best interests to do so, you can trust that we have the skill and experience needed to protect your rights throughout the court process. Holstrom, Sissung, Marks & Anderson APLC, will provide representation in other areas of Family Law including Restraining Orders.

For more information about our family law practice in either the Riverside or Orange County area visit one of our local websites.